Which has more important influence on us

Which has more important influence on us？

If someone asks you “Which has the most important influence on you, your family or your friends?”How do you answer it? We all know that family and

friendsbothhave important influence on us, but when ranking them by the degree of influence, it’s so hard to decide. And I think the final answers diverse from person to person. As for me, I think friends have more important influence.Why?

First of all, you can talk every things with some intimate friends, you can share your secrets with each other and encourage each other. This kind of friends can help you be positive to life and make you energetic. But it’s very hard to do so with your parents, because many parents and their children cannot understand each other very well. People call this generation gap. So,many of you may keep your secrets from your parents. This is a limitation to parents’ influence.

Then, if you have some outstanding friends, you can find out what makes them so brilliant and learn from them. This is very helpful to your success. Now, maybe some of you will argue against it and say that some young adult’s parents are

successful too, why can’t they learn from their parents? Well, on the contrary, I think all the parents are successful, you all should learn from your parents and there does exist many things you can learn. But your parents’ success is too far from you, their success is undergo several tens of years’ fighting. In contrast, your friends’ success is easier to achieve. What’s more, you may compete with your outstanding friends, but it’s very hard for you to form the sense of competition with your parents.

Although I think friends have more important influence on us, I do not say

friends are more important than parents. Parents give us the most selfless love and are vital to our growth.