The word “winner” and “loser” have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who makes someone else lose. To us, a winner is one who responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive, and genuine, both as an individual and as a member of a society.
Winners do not dedicate their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be: rather, they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance, maintaining pretense, and manipulating others. They are aware that there is a difference between being loving and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid, between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. Winners do not need to hide behind a mask.
Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and to use their own knowledge. They can separate facts from opinions and don't pretend to have all the answers. They listen to others, evaluate what they say, but come to their own conclusion. Although winners can admire and respect other people, they are not totally defined, demolished, bound, or awed by them. Winners do not play “helpless”, nor do they play the blaming game. Instead, they assume responsibility for their own lives. Dedicate:把···奉獻給 Define:確定···界限
Demolish:破壞，摧毀，駁倒 Assume responsibility for:為···承擔責任
勝利者不把他們的生活歸結于一種他們認為他們應該怎么樣的理論，而是他們正是他們自己，因為這個原因他們不把他們的精力用在作秀，偽裝和控制他人上。他們意識到去愛和假裝去愛，愚蠢和假裝愚蠢，學識淵博和假裝有學識的區別。勝利者從來是光明磊落的。
勝利者從不怕獨立思考和用自己的方法解決問題。他們能從觀點裡面得出實際的東西然後還會假裝沒有找出所有的答案。他們聽取別人的意見，評判他們所說的，但最後會得出他們自己的結論。儘管勝利者能夠敬仰他人，但不代表他們統統都被劃分，駁倒，界定和敬畏被那些人。
勝利者不會玩無助的把戲，也不會去責備別人。相反，他們為他們自己的生活承擔所有責任。
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